I've Never Been Divorced Before

I've Never Been Divorced Before

  • Surround Yourself

    Surround Yourself

    I’ve spent a lot of time talking about the sensible things: lawyer selection, parenting agreements, etc. And it is good to be prepared and gather… Read more.

  • The Good, the Bad and the Ugly: Parenting Agreements

    The Good, the Bad and the Ugly: Parenting Agreements

    How our parenting agreement was worded is the number one thing I’d like to change in my divorce. Lawyer number one found the most prehistoric… Read more.

  • Finding the Right Lawyer

    Finding the Right Lawyer

    I had known for a long time that my marriage was over. But when the moment arrived to begin the actual divorce, I was lost.… Read more.

Heather Murphy

There have been so many times since my divorce, that I’ve said to myself “I wish I had done things differently….if only I’d known.” I can’t turn back the clock, but I can teach you these valuable things I’ve learned. I hope it will spare you the frustrations and sadness I’ve experienced.

The Author

“I am not afraid of storms. For I am learning how to sail my ship.”

— Louisa May Alcott

Essays

  • Surround Yourself

    Dec 7, 2025
  • The Good, the Bad and the Ugly: Parenting Agreements

    Oct 27, 2025
  • Finding the Right Lawyer

    Sep 29, 2025

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“You are the lighthouse. The final destination. You can sleep easy, my dearest. The others…they are the shifting waves, but you are the harbor.” Margot S. Baumann

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